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How to Build Discipline and a Daily Routine for Success: Proven Strategies
Building Discipline and Willpower to Win Each Day
Success isn’t an accident—it’s the result of consistent self-discipline.
A daily, structured routine grounds us in self-discipline.
Whether you’re striving to build a business, improve your health, or master a skill, discipline is the key.
In this guide, we’ll explore proven strategies to:
build self-discipline
overcome common challenges
craft a daily routine that leads to lasting success
Download the free Discipline and Routine Worksheet to follow along with the prompts.
In This Article
Why Self-Discipline Is the Foundation of Success
We must be very intentional about our success.
Reaching our goals requires intentional action, whether we’re after:
career growth or entrepreneurial success
health
personal development
better relationships
A Tale of Two Lifestyles:
Josh: Josh wakes up and checks his phone first thing. His day unfolds based on impulses. He loses countless hours to social media, junk food, and procrastination.
Aaron: Aaron starts his day with purpose. Healthy habits to start the day set him up for success. He carries out a structured day of focus, productivity, and meaningful rest.
Fast forward 90 days, six months, or a year. Who’s winning in health, career, relationships, and happiness? The answer is clear: Aaron. Discipline compounds over time, creating unstoppable momentum.
That said, let’s dive into the mechanics of how to build self-discipline.
Proven Strategies for Building Self-Discipline
1. Start Small and Build Momentum
Notice in our example above, we followed our two hypothetical men over the long term. We didn’t measuring their progress after one day.
Building self-discipline is like training a muscle. Start small, and increase your capacity.
Step 1: Choose one simple habit to start with (e.g., a 10-minute morning walk).
Step 2: Commit to consistency rather than perfection—focus on showing up daily.
Step 3: Track your progress to build momentum and stay motivated.
By making small, sustainable changes, you’ll see lasting results over time. Drastic changes in short timespans are usually not sustainable.
2. Audit Your Current Habits
The process of creating discipline involves adding things into our day—and subtracting.
Do an audit on your average day:
Screen time: Use tools like RescueTime and your phone’s screen time settings to track time spent on apps.
Daily distractions: Identify where you lose focus (e.g., social media, Netflix).
What gets measured, gets managed.
Once you have a clear picture of how you spend your time, you can:
start eliminating low-value activities, and…
replace them with productive habits.
When Scott Galloway mentors young men, he starts by getting a quick win:
“I look at their screen time and I say,
‘We’re going to find 4-12 hours per week and reallocate into into fitness, making money, and socializing.’”
“It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it.” — Seneca
3. Create Clear Goals
The foundation of change is becoming aware. We are now aware of how we spend our time—now let’s identify what we want to do with it.
We need to get clear on exactly what it is we want to achieve.
Discipline without direction is a waste. Define your vision:
Who do you want to become? Visualize your ideal self.
What are your goals? Be specific about what you’re working toward.
Why does this matter? A strong "why" fuels motivation during tough moments.
The downloadable worksheet I created provides these prompts.
Now that you understand where you’re headed and why…
Let’s move into building self-discipline and your new routine.
4. Overcome Resistance
Resistance—the urge to procrastinate or avoid hard tasks—is normal. Each time you push through it, you strengthen your willpower.
Research shows that willpower functions like a muscle: it grows stronger with use.
And like a muscle, it atrophies over time if it’s not used.
There is a piece of your brain that controls willpower—and it grows in size as you push through resistance.
Quick Tips to Overcome Resistance:
Break tasks into smaller, manageable chunks.
Use a timer (e.g., the Pomodoro Technique) to commit to 25 minutes of focused work.
Use rewards—for example, checking your phone after a 90-min session without it.
How To Build Self-Discipline: One Word
In summary—the way you build discipline is by doing.
5. Avoid Burnout
Avoiding burnout is key to staying consistent, which is key to long term success.
Consistency beats intensity. To avoid burnout:
Start slow—only add one or two habits at a time.
Prioritize (actual) rest, like quality sleep, offline time, or walks in nature.
Experiment with rest days or NSDR (non-sleep deep rest) to recharge.
[Note: NSDR replenishes dopamine levels by 60%—an absolute life hack.]
Daily Habits of Successful People: What You Can Learn
Nearly all successful people have structure, routine, and healthy habits.
You will need to decide what works for you through trial and error. Let’s look at common themes in many successful peoples’ days:
Common Themes:
Health as a Priority:
Regular exercise: resistance training, cardio, or martial arts.
Balanced diet: high protein, minimally processed foods.
Quality sleep: stick to consistent sleep schedules.
Avoiding toxins: Many successful people limit alcohol and other substances.
Time Blocking for Deep Work:
Dedicate 90-minute to 4-hour blocks to focused work.
Minimize distractions (turn off notifications, use apps like Freedom).
Winning the Morning:
Mornings set the tone for the day. Avoid checking your phone in the first hour.
Start with energizing habits: a walk, a cold shower, and a high-protein breakfast.
As Cal Newport, author of Deep Work, says…
“Human beings, it seems, are at their best when immersed deeply in something challenging.”
I can’t stress enough: the phone cannot be a part of the first hour of the day (minimum).
[I already hear the excuses: “But I need my phone for work!” Okay, how do you solve that problem? Get up an hour earlier.]
Reaching for the phone first thing only increases impulses to do so throughout the day. Not to mention other detrimental effects.
Example Morning Routine
Here is my personal morning routine:
Time | Activity | Benefit |
---|---|---|
6:30 AM | Wake, immediately get outside for a walk | sunlight, blood flow, mental clarity, optimal hormones and dopamine |
7:00 AM | Cold shower | Elevated mood and focus |
7:15 AM | High-protein breakfast | Energy, focus |
7:45 AM | Focus block, coffee | Productivity |
10:30 AM | Resistance training | Strength, blood flow |
11:30 AM | Prayer and short gratitude practice | Calm, rest, spirituality |
In the worksheet, you can create your routine in this same format.
My phone is off until after the focus block, where I reward myself by checking it before heading to work out.
Building Your Routine
In my view, leveraging AI as a personal assistant is a powerful way to craft your daily routine.
The easiest way to do this is to provide ChatGPT or Claude. Provide specific inputs. For example, “My top goal is wealth generation, so I want long work blocks. My secondary goal is increasing muscle mass, so let’s increase calories.”)
Conclusion
Without discipline and routine, we remain at the mercy of impulses and distractions. But with intentional action, even small changes can transform your life.
Start by auditing your current habits.
Define your goals and priorities.
Build a sustainable daily routine using proven strategies.
Remember, consistency compounds. Six months of disciplined WILL drastically improve your health, career, and wellbeing.
Remember that learning, creating goals, and planning are the first steps. Without action, none of this matters.
Download the free Discipline and Routine Worksheet to get started now.
To your growth and travels,
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